Showing posts with label deployments. Show all posts
Showing posts with label deployments. Show all posts

Sunday, August 4, 2013

50 Random Facts About Moi

   I am trying to get more in touch with other bloggers out there and to get my blog out there as well. So I felt that I should do a "50 random facts" so my viewers and potential networkers can get an idea of who I am. So, here I go...

  1. Hate my knee caps being touched while my leg is extended. Don't know why it just freaks me out or when people can wiggle their knee caps ::shiver::
  2. Don't like being talked to before my coffee. I feel as if I cant function or be my happy self with out a cup of warm sugar-y coffee
  3. Get grouchy when I'm hungry. Really only towards my husband or family, not sure why but I do. when I get mad at my husband he always says go get a snack and then we will talk haha
  4. Don't like fast food, only Taco bell and Wendy's.  Since I'm going Gluten free I cant go to either one :/
  5. Cant fall asleep without the sound of a fan or the feel of one blowing on me. I have to either have a ceiling fan on and a plug in fan or a ceiling fan on and the fan app on my phone going.
  6. Favorite You Tubers consist of Jenna Marbles, Nat, and Shaytards!
  7. Wear flip flops everywhere... even in the snow in Alaska. Guess you can call me a true FL girl
  8. "When I know stuff, I say stuff" Kinda my catch phrase. I used to play trivia every Wednesdays at Applebee's  with my brother, sister in-law and some friends back in the day and most of the questions I didn't know the answer to, but when I actually said an answer without hesitation they knew to listen!
  9. NYC is my favorite city. I wouldn't want to live anywhere close to it but I love love love visiting it!
  10. Don't like when people tell me to "calm down". I very rarely get passionate about something or know enough about a subject to actually go in depth with it. When I do, let me go on because Lord knows when you know something you can go on for days. don't get me wrong I do know a lot of stuff and im smart I just don't like to open my mouth and debate about it quite often.
  11. Love roller coasters... seriously, like, LOVE them! I cant go to a theme park and not ride every single ride one after another after another without any breaks.
  12. Princess Bride and Labyrinth are my all time favorite movies. My family and I can quote both movies.
  13. Lost my last tooth in the 8th grade, I liked to baby my teeth and never really pulled them out when they were loose
  14. Favorite color is pink! My husband makes fun of me and says that Aqua and sea foam green are my "secret favorite colors" because I am drawn to them as well.
  15. Don't like alcohol. Don't really like to be around it, or smell it. I don't like the way people act while drinking it, I could spend my whole life avoiding it and be perfectly fine. I actually don't mind going out to clubs or a bar with friends but I cant sit by the bar for long or stand to close to someone who is drinking if I can smell it. I used to do the whole "hey, I'm 21 lets drink" but that got boring extremely fast and now I cant stand it. Luckily my husband is on the same page with me and he isn't a drinker either, but every once in a while he will have Disaronno and coke at a party or something but that doesn't reek of the smell.
  16. Love Tow Mater. I have  a plush toy of him on the top of my dashboard as my mascot :)
  17. Had a job the weekend after I turned 14. I was a bag girl at Publix supermarket. Worked my way up to cashier, front desk, back office, pharmacy, deli, then to bakery where I fell in love with cake decorating.
  18. To snowball after the last one; I have had many jobs since I quit Publix after 5 years. I've worked at Payless as a Asst. manager, waitress at Buffalo Wild Wings and a local restaurant, front desk at Quality Inn, a counselor at a year round camp in the Four Seasons of Palm beach. Same job as the counselor I also did face painting, juggling, air brush tattoos, helped out with their petting zoo full of tons of weird, creepy, cute and cuddly animals. I also participated at many dance parties and black light parties for after school programs with a WONDERFUL crew named Glass Productions or visit their website here! Amazing people!!! I also worked at subway and was a manager at the one in NJ, a floral and gift shop, a health food and coffee shop, a babysitter, a cake decorator at Food Lion  and as a promoter at a radio station in FL
  19. And to snow ball after that one as well; I knew from kindergarten I wanted to be in broadcasting. I did the morning announcements from elementary till 8th grade. In high school I took journalism and photography and helped out friends who were in the announcements as a guest speaker a few times. After I graduated from high school I went to Connecticut School of Broadcasting (which was actually in FL) I graduated and from there worked (interned) at 97.9 WRMF of Palm Beach for about 6 months. I quit due to, they had "my" job as a paid position open up and they still wanted me to do it for free and not apply. They were wonderful people and I got to do a lot of amazing things, but I wanted to get paid, so we didn't see eye to eye :/
  20. Harvest moon and Sims are my games!!!! Love 'em
  21. Don't like Chocolate, fish or Nutella.... yea I said it!
  22. Very outgoing growing up, had tons of friends. As I grew up I got very shy and now only have a few good friends; I find it difficult to make friends because of my shyness. Once you get to know me I open up and im crazy but you have to really get to know me.
  23. My height: 5 foot 2... yea... I'm short
  24. While working at Glass productions I helped for a month as a farm hand. I had to feed and water all their animals, including the chickens. Now, I like chickens, I grew up with several in my back yard but not anything like "Diablo". I was feeding the chickens one day and I got attacked.... yes attacked, by a rooster. Not my proudest moment but it happened... and I cried, like a baby, to my manager and told him that I was never going in the chicken pen again... I was 19 years old :/
  25. 1st concert I ever went to was in the 5th grade and it was a Spice Girls concert
  26. I am a night Owl. I can stay up super late, but I cant wake up earlier than 10 am without being a grouch.
  27. Hate hate hate casseroles! Nothing about them is appealing. Whose bright idea was it to take a good meal like meat, cheese, noodles and sauce and combine them all together in a nasty mix of nastiness and eat it? No thank you
  28. Never seen... are you ready? Harry potter (except the 1st and last one), Star Wars, Star Trek, Godfather, Sopranos, Lord of the Rings, Indiana Jones (except that alien one because Shia LaBeouf was in it), Dr. Who, or Scarface. I know im not American but it happens :P
  29. Hate doing the dishes. Something about old watered down food makes me want to puke. I will take toilets any day, which is kind of ironic if you think about it...
  30. I sing everything I do, no matter if people are around or not... I have to make a song about it.
  31. I talk to my animals about 90% of the time that im home. There could be people over or even my husband and I still talk to them. ::ashamed:: :)
  32. Love Taylor Swift. I dont care what she does or who she dates/fake dates or what ever. I love her! The 1st time I heard "Tim McGraw" I knew she was going to be big! I went to her concert before she was well known and it was the best concert (besides Rascal Flatts, NO ONE is better than Rascal Faltts in concert)
  33. Cant deny a good chick flick, especially anything by Nicholas sparks... he's my favorite and I don't care how cliché it is.
  34. I never go a day without laughing. Laughter is the best medicine! They say that laughter is good for you and is a good ab workout.. well I should have a 10 pack by now! :)
  35. Love dinner. My favorite time of day. as soon as I wake up, after my cup or two of coffee I'm already wondering what to have for dinner. I could go hungry all day but don't mess with my dinner
  36. I like to try every food at least once, so when I say I don't like a type of food, I've actually tried it, probably many times and I just don't like it.
  37. I sing LOUD in the car, and usually dance too
  38. 74 is my favorite number. I have no idea why or how I got that number but it is!
  39. Lacrosse is the only sport I will watch on tv. I only watch the super bowl if its at some ones house for a super bowl party, and I only do it for the commercials. I also played lacrosse for 3 years in high school
  40. I randomly break out in a British accent, not sure why, but it started when I was obsessed with the Spice Girls and I watched Spice world religiously!  My dad would yell at me because it came to a point when I only talked in the accent so they sat me down and gave me an intervention. Yet, even till this day it comes out!
  41. Never finish my whole sandwich. For some odd reason I always leave the last bite, even with a hamburger. Maybe its because its the soggy part..? I don't know.
  42. Always in my pj's. When I lived in FL I even went out in jammie pants... I would live in them if only it was socially acceptable. I only get changed into normal clothes if I leave the house, and as soon as I come home I go straight upstairs and put them back on.
  43. When I take a shower I have to listen to music
  44. Never had braces
  45. Have 7 dimples on my face. 3 on my left cheek, 2 on my right, and one on each side of the upper part of my cheeks (below my eyes) if I laugh really hard
  46. Don't like swimming in public pools. I don't mind water parks, even though that's probably more gross. When I was younger I swam in the public pool at my fathers apartments and I put on goggles, went underwater and looked up and saw boogers floating everywhere... from then on I refuse to go in them. Luckily, my mom bought us a underground pool growing up so I never had to witness that again
  47. Last year I went to the audition to be in a extra of Iron man 2. I didn't get a call back but I did meet two girls that were extras in the Hunger Games as one of the capitol people.
  48. Growing up I watched Harriet the Spy... a lot. So much so, that I thought I was a spy. My friend and I went around her neighborhood and took pictures of "suspicious" activity and their license plates, so when we caught them, the police could find the getaway car when they tried to run away. Yup, I was a winner back then :D
  49. I have 5 siblings but only grew up with 3 of them; The other 2 are my fathers kids. The youngest I saw often growing up but now I have no contact with her, and the oldest I never really saw but now we stay in contact a lot. While I lived in NJ for 5 months, I visited her 3 times and I am now a part of my little niece and nephews life :)
  50. Last one... The past few years I have grown closer and closer to God. Growing up, yeah we went to church on Sundays and I loved God but I wasn't close to Him. Now since I've been on my own, I feel closer to Him. I need Him more and more; especially since my husband deploys a lot and I have been diagnosed with a few serious medical issues. I feel as if I was put through these difficult trials so I could grow closer to God and I thank Him everyday for that! I am much happier with Him in my life, and I feel more at ease in knowing that everything I go through, I just need to put it in His hands and He will take care of me. Now I have hardly any stress and no regrets.

If you want to know anything else about me I have a link on the side, at the top with the title "About me" just click on it and you can know a few more things :)

I hope you have enjoyed and now you know a few more things about me and my "corks" :)

P.S My husband just informed that I need to tell you that I have an obsession with Swiffer ( I have every swiffer that was ever made), that I have to eat popcorn almost every night, and I love kitchen appliances... that is all :D


Love you all,

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Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Welcome home boys

  Yesturday, sitting in the Hyundai waiting room for 2 hours while getting our oil change and tires rotated, an older gentleman was in the room with us waiting for his car to get washed. When the service sales man came into the room to show us how dirty our filter was, I heard the older man smirk to himself as Zack sat back down next to him, and continued playing on his phone. The older man looked over at Zack and proceeded to say a comment which sounded like it was going to be on eof those "You know in my day...." converstaions *insert eye roll and awkward smiles*.  The man begun to tell us about when he was younger how he had "one of them pickup trucks" and said it was so funny that one day, he took it in to get it looked at and the repair guy said his filter was so bad that he had to take a vacuum to itand behind it just remove all the dust and junk that had built up. Zack and I just nodded and said the usual "oh really? wow!" Then somehow he started talking about WWI, WWII and Vietnam, like most of them do. After a long pause he says "From one veteran to another, Thank you.... I think that's why the older veterans are so focused on giving you all such a wonderful welcome home; Ya know?...they never got one...." That right there hit me!
 
  When we were in Alaska last month, we went to a movie called Honor Flight, its about sending hundreds WWII vets to DC on one flight, to see the memorial before they pass away. When they fly back to the airport, they walk into the terminal and see a few people with signs saying welcome home we thank you; As the walk further into the airport, they see more and more people all around. All these strangers begin hugging them, smiling at them, shaking their hands, until they walk into the middle of the airport where they are bombarded with smiles, tears of happiness, a loud band playing, confetti everywhere and their families; Its a real welcome home that they deserve. If any one wants to see an amazing movie, I would hands down recommend this movie by far! There wasn't one person in the hole theater with dry eyes! This is the Website telling you all about the organization.
 
 I decided to dedicate this blog post to all the men and women who came home from over seas; You all did a job well done!
 
 I know Zack got home over 2 months ago and this post is long over due but I think we had a great welcome home and I would like to share it with you.
My friend Kate and I did these one afternoon. I'm happy
 how they came out. My friend Denise and I put them up on my
garage with Justin Bieber duct tape lol

 
With window Chalk I wrote "Welcome home Sgt. Scribner.
I recommend using the window markers rather than chalk because
the chalk washes off with even the littlest rain (and it poured)
 
Welcome home event it was beautiful
 
The band was amazing and kept us busy because Lord knows
I was anxious as all heck :)
 
He's finally home! Excuse the hair... like I said, it POURED!
 
 
 
  My friend Denise came up a few days before they got home and she got to see her (soon to be) Husband come home from the same deployment. This was her first welcome home she ever went to so I came as support and as her "photographer"
 


This was the best experience that I've seen. I was so happy that
I was invited along to take pics.


  I believe that now a day we are truly blessed when our significant others deploy. Back in the day they had to write letter, yea I still ask for Zack to write me letters once in a while because its more personable, but I usually get them in like a weeks time frame; back then it would take longer. That's all you had to know your loved one was alive, a letter; No emails, phone calls, no pictures or even Facebook. I got worried when Zack took a few hours to respond to me, let alone if I had to wait weeks. I was just talking to Zack about that the other day, being a military spouse is hard, but I give props to anyone who had to do that without the technology.

One of my best friends greeting her husband in the Army coming home to HI


  Lets continue to help out or fellow military men and women; lets give them the best welcome home we can because not everyone gets one!



WELCOME HOME BOYS!
 
 
Love you all,


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Friday, March 22, 2013

The few inbetween

It's getting closer and closer till Zack comes home. Oh boy am I ready. In the beginning I felt excited because that's money to pay off our credit card (which is only for emergencies or plane tickets) our TV,  mattress and my student loan (which we did... cue the happy dance) but there is a lot of anxiety, what if's and the unknowns (HATE the unknowns) that you feel before they leave. I know for Zack and I, the past 2 deployments we would kind of distance ourselves a month before he left, and we would get into fights about silly things. This deployment I had to pack up the house pretty much by myself. He work 12 on 12 off (12 hrs of working straight, sometimes 13hrs) which meant when I got off work of my part time job I had to go straight into packing up our 2 story house, which was a fight all its own. On the weekends him and his friend would fix up his truck so he could sell it, which seemed like a month of them taking it apart, cleaning everything and rhino lining the bed of the truck. I was getting very annoyed, sometimes I even caught myself saying "will you just deploy already?", then leave to go to the gym or work. That sounds horrible but the hole situation was very stressful and this was his 3rd deployment; I was over him leaving me for 10+ months at a time... I just wanted HIM! The last week was emotional on another level... kind of felt like a break up. I was packing my stuff, he was hauling it all away, and we were hardly talking. My heart ached. After he left I was at the house cleaning up everything... again I was stressed out because not everything got done the night before and I felt like he left me with EVERYTHING, I just broke down and started crying while cleaning. It wasn't fair I felt, I had to clean the hole house, I had to make the last minute storage unit runs, I had to sign back over the house, I had to take care of the animals now by myself, and I had to move to another state that I've never been too (I was moving to NJ with my dad). I felt alone and miserable and no one in the world could ever possibly know how I was feeling.



*Let me tell you, everything you feel is perfectly normal even if you feel alone, there are thousands of spouses and significant others who are going through the same thing as you.

After I got on the road I was doing ok, I got to see my family and I was ready for this new adventure! As the months progressed I got a job, made a friend or two and hung out with all my family up here in NJ. I was having a good time, hated my job, but having a good time. I got on a new schedule day to day, visited my sister in CT a few times, and met up with a few military friends who were in NYC, so, we got to hang out all day and have dinner. I went on a train for the first time, went on the subway, took a million pictures, met a few celebrities, went to a live showing of a tv show, and saw time square... life was good
Such a beautiful city
Kelly Ripa
Michael Straham
 1st subway ride 
 Grand Central Station

 Christmas tree
 Time square
 My friends I met up with
 Fathers girlfriend and I on the FAO piano floor
Family friend works as the manager so we got to try all sorts of goodies :D
 

*Sometimes I felt guilty that I was having fun and couldn't email Zack right off the bat but that's perfectly normal too. They want you to have a life while they aren't there, they love hearing stories from you... they are living through you!

 I felt a few times I wanted to scream at the top of my lungs... I tried to pay the bills and one time I needed to talk to the company and they refuse to talk to me because I'm not on all the accounts just yet, So I couldn't get anything done that I need to because its a hassle driving 20 minutes to the library or staples to fax over my POA in a busy town. His 2nd deployment I was trying to buy a car and I faxed over the wrong POA (I faxed the housing POA first) and I got red flagged, so even when I faxed over the correct POA they wouldn't help me. When calling navy federal, your POA only last 24 hours so I had to constantly send them the POA. Finally, after yelling and screaming and calling them a thousand times I gave up and just drove with my sister in law to Miami (3 hrs away was the nearest navy fed from my house in FL) walked in, showed them my ID and POA and then got the loan right then and there.... I wish I would have done that first. That was a ruff week and my husband wasn't able to call because he was on a boat with 3,000 people and 2 working phones.

Coming up to the last couple of months of deployment is ruff again. I miss him like crazy and we only have a few months standing in our way. Today was my last day of work. My mom and sister are coming up from FL to help me move back to NC. Im so excited... the quicker we move back the quicker he comes home. I am so irritable right now; Everything makes me mad or upset. I am such a happy person so this isn't in my character to act like this. I just want to sleep all day and never get out of my bed.

Sister and I in central park
 
On the way home to NC we stopped at Washing DC for a few days. It was A LOT of fun!!
 

 
 
 Easter egg hunt at the White House
 Science museum
 Hope Diamond
 My beautiful mom
Pretty church with all the Cherry blossoms
 

*It is crucial to keep your self busy; the busier you are the less time you have to think about your situation. that's the key... ALWAYS stay busy, time will go by fast and you'll spend less time thinking about him. Its ok to not think about him every two seconds, I promise!

*Don't ever feel guilty for any of these feelings. This is all the process of deployment. When he comes back, its normal to say things like MY stuff, MY house, MY kids etc. you spend the last X amount of months fending for yourself, making a new schedule/routine, and doing things by yourself. Just remember that it will pass and you'll have a new routine INCLUDING your significant other. Remember he will be stressed and not the same when he comes back, just as you wont be the same to him either. It will take some time but everything will be ok! Keep your chin up and there are numerous way to fix that and people who are willing to help you and talk to you after deployments. Talk to your FRO (family readiness officer) and they will help you with any feeling that your feeling or any thought that you have. They've heard everything, don't be afraid to express your thoughts and feelings, they will help! Also, if possible try and surround yourself by family and friends during this time, even though they might not know what you are feeling, they will listen and that's what you need to do, talk about it, be open with yourself!


I found this online and it breaks it down for you


If you have any question, comments, or a story please let me know :)

Love you all,

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Monday, January 21, 2013

Valentines day for the deployed

The holidays were hard enough with out our loved one... now coming up is the most romantic holiday of the year. Lets try and make them feel like they are home and with us on this day. So, what travels well? What's unique? What wont he hate? I have scoured through the inter webs and came up with a pretty decent list to start your valentines day package.

What travels well:
  • Not chocolate. That's the one thing you think of when it's valentines day. I know, that puts a damper in all the gifts I was thinking of too!
  • Hard candy
  • Home made cookies- They will travel pretty well. they might be stale a few days after he gets them but if you seal them in a Pringles container or well sealed Tupperware, they should make it. On the upside, if they happen to not stay fresh, stale home made cookies are better than anything that they are eating out there, I promise.
  • Cake- Mason Jar cake to be exact. Just make sure that you use bubble wrap and news paper and anything you can think of to protect that glass.... shard glass in cake doesn't sound fun.

What's unique:
  • Anything home made. Cards, scrap books, picture frames, any pictures of your hometown, kids, and other familiar places and faces. If your not that creative Shutterfly makes this easy. Just upload all the pics you want, pick out the colors, theme, choose the picture you want on the page and it does everything else for you. Pages and pictures are of great quality too. 
  • Calander- good idea if he just deployed. you can put every ones birthday, and special holidays or events to celebrate. They loose track of time out there so this will really help them out. Also, you can get on Shutterfly and add pictures to each of the months to make it extra unique.
  • Pillow case. Find the highest thread count, and softest fabric, spray his fave perfume of yours on it (load it up). Place it in a plastic bag and tie it really tight so the smell stays on the pillow case. When he opens it he will get a wall of your perfume and should send him tons of memories of you!
  • Teddy bear. Sounds lame but go to Build A Bear and you can add your voice to the bear and say cute sayings to him. If he's staying anywhere like where my husband is, its hard for him to call or Skype so all he will have to do is push the bear's paw to hear your voice :)
  • Video- cant go wrong with a video of you telling him you love him and his family saying hi, kids playing in the yard, or your dog licking the lens. Edit them together and add his favorite song; it will defiantly bring a smile to his face. I did this for Christmas for my husband one year of the snow falling, friends that were home for the holidays that he hadn't seen since high school and us decorating the tree. He said that was the best present he ever got. :)
  • Photo blanket of you and loved ones- I got one for my friend from Walmart online with a collage of her family. They are decently priced, really soft and warm.

What he wont hate:
  • Anything he needs. i.e a new watch, sun screen, new sheets for his bed or a new camera
  • Snacks- granola, chips, hard candy, gum, mints, microwave mac and cheese, Jerky, and his favorite cereal
  • Recreating his favorite dinner. For Thanksgiving this year I did a recreation a turkey dinner which included turkey jerky, sweet potato chips, dried cranberries, Dole cinnamon apple crisp (its a play off of the Stoffer's cinnamon apple sides) and load baked potato Pringles

Mason Jar Cake Recipe:
  • 6 mason jars
  • Cake mix, and the ingredients on the back
  •  Cooking spray (Pam) 
  • Bamboo skewers
  • A rimmed cookie sheet
- Preheat the oven as directed on the box
- Make the cake batter as shown on box
- Grease the inside of the jar with cooking spray
- Fill the jars to just below the one-cup mark. make sure you wipe down the jar real good so there isn't any excess batter
- Place the jars evenly spaced on the cookie sheet.
- Bake the cakes until a bamboo skewer inserted in the center comes out clean. They say 15 mins less than the box directions but I've read that it actually ends up being longer, just keep an eye on them. Mine took a lot longer than what the internet said.
- While the jars are still hot, place the seals and rings on the jars; the seals and rings should be at room temperature or warmer. Make sure not to tighten the rings too much. Within 15 minutes the lids should seal themselves so the center button can no longer be depressed. Add a cute scrapbook tag or decorate it and your done
 
 
 
 
As always; For every package:
Their favorite:
  • Shampoo/body wash
  • Colone
  • Tooth brush/paste
  • Snacks
  • Baby wipes
  • Pictures
  • Playing cards
  • Video games
  • Movies
  • PC computer games
  • Powered juice (for water bottles i.e. crystal light, gatorade, mio)
  • Vitamins
  • Air activated heating pads
  • Paper and pens (incourage writing letters instead of emails)
  • Local news papers
  • Magizines
  • And anything else that will help them feel like home
Also, get creative, decorate the box.. with stickers, markers, construction paper... :)

-enjoy





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Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Where'd you go? I missed you so....

    I'm going to start this off as a brand new blog. I haven’t been on in what looks to be 2 years.... almost exactly. I’m going to try and make this a weekly thing since I quit my job and I’m a stay at home wife with nothing to do except chase a puppy around all day.
    My husband Zack was deployed again for another year. He just got back Feb 3, 2012. He was on a MEU (Marine Expeditionary Unit) which pretty much means he was on a ship. He was in the Mediterranean sea on what seemed to be a yearlong cruise. He got to visit Spain, Dubai, Portugal, among other really cool places (lucky). This deployment was the hardest because we lived together for a year after he got home from Afghanistan, and then he left for what was supposed to be 7 months and it turned into a 10 month deployment. He got to email me almost every day but we only got to talk on the phone for maybe 10 times the hole time he was gone (maybe once a month). I got to Skype him for 3 days in a row during one of his ports and that’s it. That was a struggle because it’s hard to put into word every, little, thing that happens to you in one day. There is no summing up like you do in your diary, blog, or Facebook. When they are deployed they want to know everything because they “live through you” as he always tells me.
    For Christmas he bought me a car. We needed a reliable one for when he came home due to our wonderful luck with cars. He bought me a 2010 Chevy Equinox. Getting it was the real struggle. I fought with Navy Fed for a hole week. Literally, every day for a week. They thought we were fake and it was a scam all because I faxed over the wrong POA (power of attorney). They told me it was the wrong one so I set over the correct one and they for some reason put a red flag on us and they wouldn’t give me the loan. Zack called them twice proving that we were real but they had to see me in person. So, I had to drive 2 hours to Miami to show them that I was real…. Really!?! But 2 weeks later I got my car :) That’s the hard part about deployment, I was so stressed (which I hardly ever am) I was so mad (Which is never) and felt so alone and my husband couldn’t even call me to comfort me. Yea, I had my family but sometimes you need your significant other to be there for you, especially when he’s the only one in the world who can fix it. I never realized how strong you have to be for a deployment, not only for the other person but for yourself, to make it another month. That is why the number one thing you need is to surround yourself with family and friends… people who truly care about you. That is the only way I made it.


    My husband is home now, possibly not much longer, he might have to deploy again in November for 6 months (so they say). He really wants to go recruiting and to be stationed in AK, which we will be there for 3 years. Sounds good to me because he constantly talks about how he misses it and he wants to move back and blah blah blah. My thing is we live there for 3 years and then we can retire somewhere in the middle between FL and AK. Which seems fair to me :) . We will find out Thursday what he has to do to go recruiting. Hopefully it all works out because I do not want him to deploy again.


    Let’s see how long I can keep this blog thing up for. I really want to stay on top of this, it’s nice to go back and look at everything that happened to me over the past 2 years ( my hole 4 post earlier lol) Life has been ok. When my husband deployed I moved to AK again but I was only there for 6 months. I had 3 jobs (subway, Rogues garden coffee shop and health food store, and Northwind floral and gift shop) and I also baby sat a bunch of kids in town. I met some amazing people and made a lot of really cool friends. This time was different, I felt last time people were just hanging out with me because of my husband (I hung out with all of his old friends) this time I made my own friends people who didn’t know my husband and that didn’t grow up in that town. I felt as if I actually made my own friends and didn’t just get “grand fathered in” to my husband’s friends… my friends hung out with me for me not because I was new in town and Zack’s wife. I miss them a lot, it was definitely a good trip, kind of wished it lasted longer. I moved back to FL in the beginning of November due to a family emergency (I will explain in another post soon).  I got hired back at my old job working with a kids camp in the four seasons of Palm beach (my absolute favorite job), hung out with old friends, it was great, but I’m so glad to be in NC now with my husband though. This place is…. Ok I guess… just a normal military town, nothing to do, but my husband is here and that’s all that I care about :)


    I got a job working at the front desk at a Quality Inn. They hired me as the 6-2pm shift so I could still pick up my husband from work, low and behold they kept scheduling me for the 2-10pm which I never got to see Zack except for driving him to work at 6am and saying goodnight to him when I finally got home at 10:30 pm. I did that for about a month and we just couldn't take it. We are still like newly weds, we only actually saw each other for a year and the hole time he was state side ,we had roommates so we never got to do the normal newly wed things. When I cooked I cooked for all and cleaned for all too... it was never just us two, so I had to quit my job so I can see him and spend time with him. Now between the new puppy and my crazy cat all I want to do is get out of the house :) I literally can't even go to the bathroom by myself. Kiski (Siberian husky puppy) has separation problems with me, I cant get up for anything without her following me. If she cant see me she will start barking... same with Taylor (Bombay cat), he follows me every where too... bathroom and all. Guess this is what it feels like to be a mom :D I've got my hands full now


Until next time...
Love you all,

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